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The Ultimate Dos And Don’ts Of The Perfect Urban Man

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Here Are The Rules To Follow To Become A Better Urban Man!

As an urban man the first rule you need to know is this : “YOU set the rules”. However, there’s a couple dos and don’ts you need to follow in order to enhance your style, way of thinking and your life in the process.

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Being an urban man is more than just a label or a cool thing to say; it’s a way of life. From the way you think to the way you dress; there are dos and don’ts to follow religiously.

Today we will overview the ultimate dos and dont’s of the perfect urban man (and yeah you gon learn today buddy!)

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1. Open-mindedness

Sometimes we reassure ourselves by sticking to what we know. Long term this can be very dangerous because we’re not receiving new information, ideas or point of views that could’ve been game changers.

Open-mindedness allows you to be in the loop because you don’t judge the messenger; you judge the message itself.

Open-mindedness allows you to see opportunities where people see obstacles and at the end this will give you an upper edge on anybody who quits when it gets tough.

2.The “Outside The Box” Factor

Similar to open-mindedness the “Outside The Box” factor is something you can’t neglect.

Society establishes norms and rules to follows and if you really take your time to dissect what extraordinary are made of; you realize that they all think outside of the box.

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Dump the “Everybody Knows This” and trade it for “What If People Were Wrong?”. By questioning what you’ve accepted as common knowledge, you will find your own truth and learn to think for yourself.

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3.Don’t Believe The Hype

You have to be a trendsetter at all cost. The mindset you set for yourself will eventually allow you to avoid the pitfall of following trends or doing what everybody else does.

This specifically applies to your daily style. Instead of camping outside for the hot releases that everybody will wear you should try to check for upcoming brands that deserve to be discovered instead!

Don’t believe us?! Is there anyone playing Pokémon Go these days?

4.Be Inspired But Do NOT Copy

In the 10 urban man commandments, this could be #1 as well!

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5.Talk Less Do More

The digital world is phenomenal but I firmly believe that it stopped people from taking action in real life.

It’s funny how people can use 140 characters to explain what their plan is but they would rarely use 10 minutes of their day to get it done.

An urban man is doer not a talker!

6.Live & Learn (Not Always In The Same Order)

We have to lose this false perception that we can control everything in life. Whether you admit it or not sometimes “Life Happens“.

Even though we can’t control this chain of events we commonly call life, we can control the way we interpret and react to them.

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As simplistic as it sounds, everything is a learning process. When something bad happened instead of beating yourself over it try to seek for what lesson you can get from this experience.

I mean literally force yourself to find something to learn from that experience in order to feel like at least you’ve gained something from it. The glass is either half full or half empty, you choose.

On my end, my ups and downs in my dating life allowed me to pinpoint the 20 Things I Wished I Never Wore On A 1st Date which turned our to be a great article years later!

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7.Stay Fresh But Don’t Brag About The Price Tag

It all goes back to #3 but there’s a twist. People have the misconception that using high end products is a mark of success or taste when it’s not the case actually.

Taste is about knowing how to put things together in harmony while setting trends by making the world discover new things. Taste is also about recognizing what’s dope regardless of the price.

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Even though it may seems crazy for some of our readers but a lot of the most effective outfits you see in magazines are coming straight for the local thrift shops and not Holt Renfrew.

8.Keep Your Style Clean & Your Mind Too

First impressions are the last and whoever told you the opposite was just trying to make you feel good (seriously).

Make sure your style fits your personality, what you want to project and adjust it for any kind of occasions.

When it comes to your mind, a perfect urban man knows how to keep himself away from his negative thoughts or ego.

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Nobody likes an asshole anyway!

9.Believe In Your Greatness And Uplift Others

Self-confidence is the key but nothing beats the feeling of giving back and helping someone.

10. Eat, Sleep, Repeat

No matter what you do in life, you have to care of your health first. Your body is temple and without it none of those previous rules can apply.

Learn about how to stay fit, how to eat and live better. Sometimes we get so caught up in the routine of grinding and focusing on the future rather than the present moment.

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Take care of yourself first and the rest will follow!

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Sports Experts Might Be Your Go To For Your Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gifts

A Different Kind Of Valentine’s Day

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Sports Experts’ Valentine’s Day Guide Is Your Life Saver This Year

Whether you believe in it or not, Valentine’s Day is your occasion to show appreciation for your significant other. Perhaps, when you’ve went through tons of flowers and chocolate; looking at Sports Experts as a potential place for a nice gift is not that farfetched.

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To make it easy for you to navigate through their wide selection. They’ve put together a guide that brings together some of ideas for him and her.

To make it even easier for our readers, we’ve handpicked our favorite items that should make it to whatever you have planned on February 14th.

#1 Fitbit Versa

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Price : 199,99$

If I’m with you, I want you be happy, fulfilled and most of all H-E-A-L-T-H-Y . That’s exactly what you get with the Fitbit versa, a slick design and all the functionalities to take your fitness to the next level. It doesn’t hurt that the watch is currently on discount either.

#2 Skates

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Price Range: 41,99$- 159,99$

There’s something about outdoor activities during the winter time. You won’t miss by getting yourself his/hers pairs of skates. There are plenty skate rinks sprinkled around the city just waiting for you.

 

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#3  Adidas Matching Outfits

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Price Range: 54,99$- 104,99$

It’s a ”To Each His Own” moment but if that’s what you’re into or if you just want to spice things up your way to your date, this might be a good surprise.

#4  A Gopro

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Price: 529,99 $

First off, it was a shocker to me that Sports Experts actually has Gopros but if you want to capture moments with your significant other and let him or her explore their creativity, this is the one!

#5 A Yoga Matte

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Price: 69,99$

Let’s try something different for 2021, how about trading your usual dinner at home with candles for a nice and serene yoga session. You have to switch things up sometimes ladies and gents.

For more ideas and suggestions, go check their guide on the Sports Experts website.

 

 

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The End Of An Era And A New Start: Dress To Kill Magazine Goes Digital

A New World Order

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I hate to break it down to you so abruptly but the world is changing, the world as we knew it, the way we consume, the way we think and even that good old Dress To Kill magazine is going through it.

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As a young and inexperienced blogger back in 2016, I felt deep in my earth that paper was a dying medium and that the internet was about to carry the torch.

a hundreds of blog posts later, multiple attempts at building an online presence and literally trying to digitize the aesthetics & creativity I saw in magazines growing up.

I must admit 2 things: 1. what it takes to make fashion or information enjoyable is very hard to put together and 2 building an audience on or offline is a GREAT feat.

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I grew to admire and respect my peers in traditional media because they made the most out of nothing at a time where Facebook and all those outlets were not a thing.

In case you didn’t know, Dress To Kill magazine is not your average magazine by any shape or form.

Promoting Canadian art and fashion from province to province was something seemingly unthinkable but they got it done.

From iconic covers with Lenny Kravitz and more iconic nights at le Mount Stephen to bring the whole industry under the same roof, DTK got it done.

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Don’t take what I’m saying as a farewell note because today actually mark a rebirth for the publication.

Indeed, while the world was going all over the place, they went on a well thought out rebrand.

As you might have guessed, the biggest take away from this is the stoppage of the paper version of the magazine.

The focus is now digital but as I told you earlier, DTK doesn’t go halfway.

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Their new platform will include an online boutique which once again is going to focus on shedding light on Canadian creators for men and women.

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Do you think more magazines are going to make a full transition to digital?

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We Ask A Personal Development Coach How To Overcome The Ins and Outs Of The Crisis

It’s all about your point of view

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Everything You Need to Know Through The Lens Of A Personal Development Coach

I’m always amazed at how people like to stigmatize the role or relevance of a personal development coach. They’re quick to label it a scam, a fad, something based on nothing but little they did know, they’re coaches around the world who impacts millions and millions of people in a life changing way. I was looking for the equivalent of a Tony Robbins in Quebec, my research undoubtedly came back to the same name: Marc Dumaine.

Read More: Here’s What I’ve Learned About Myself Since The Coronavirus Crisis Started

Mr Dumaine is more than a personal development coach, he’s a man with a story.

Not your average story either. From overcoming alcohol and drug abuse to obtaining a MBA to running campaigns for some of the biggest corporations in this province. Here’s a man of many battles.

Honorable mention too, these days Marc is focused on creating an international platform to impact as many people he possibly can.

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The bottom line is this. This personal development coach is not unfamiliar with trials and tribulations, changes and transitions.

That’s why to me, in a time like this where everything is doing a 180 degree, I had to pick his brain and ask him how can you and I get over.

In this Q&A, we indeed ask Marc Dumaine about several things such as how to bounce back from the crisis, his keys to success and much more.

QUESTIONS FOR MARC DUMAINE

 

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#1 How did you figure yourself out as a future entrepreneur and what was the key factor that made you take that route?

I was always an artist at heart and found that I didn’t it in any mole.  After completing my MBA, I realized that my biggest assets were my differences.  I decided at that moment to stop following what people expected from me and launched my own business.  To me being an entrepreneur is an art form in itself. I have never regretted that choice since I launched Asana Coaching 10 years ago.

#2 How can someone go from being self-employed to an entrepreneur making money without physically being there?

The internet is booming with opportunities right now ! Even with the COVID-19, there is a redefinition of the way people consume products and services ! It is a TIME for being creative and look into endless opportunities ! Get out of our comfort zone and start being inspired by people who are already doing it ! Then, build yourself a right game plan with an amazing branding, and you are all set for the best adventure of your life. 

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#3 What are the pros and cons of being a consultant?

The pros are definitely the freedom it gives you in terms of choosing your schedule, the services you want to offer, the different partnerships you can build and finally, having a real impact in your client’s lives !

The biggest con I think is the loneliness that comes from working on your own and often alone ! You also have the insecurity of never having a stable income.  This life is not made for everybody ! 

#4 What would be the achievement you’re most proud of and why?

The biggest achievement for me is to have never given up ! In my 10 years as an entrepreneur, I could have gone bankrupt a few times, I could have been discouraged for so many reasons… but my faith in what I was doing kept me going ! It is a hard industry where you are competing against so many people and you have to realize that you have never made it ! You have to renew yourself every day, offer the top of the top and always evolve as a human being and expert ! I am very proud to still be there today, stronger than ever.

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#5 What entrepreneurs should learn from the Coronavirus crisis?

I think we have to realize that we can’t just keep running all the time ! The anxiety, the stress and the adrenaline are very dangerous ! We talk a lot of profitability, performance but we tend to forget to talk about happiness and well-being ! I hope this time brings more humanity into entrepreneurs’ lives ! 

#6 Where do you see yourself in 5 years from now?

Without wanting to sound over the top, I truly believe that I will have built my brand into an international platform that will include wellness retreats worldwide, TV shows, a one-man show, a few books and real estate projects ! No pressure ! LOL Seriously, I am a kid at heart and developing my business is the best adventure that life has given me ! Watch out world, I am coming. 🙂

#7 What would be the main thing entrepreneurs around the world should learn from you?

That I almost died three times from drugs and alcohol ! That I was the mos unhappy and insecure person for the two thirds of my life ! That i was bullied and rejected for being different ! And in the end, I am the living proof that anything is possible when you don’t give up on yourself and your life ! 

#8 What would be your 3 keys to success ?

1- You are 100% responsible for your choices, attitude, perceptions and mindset

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2- There are no mistakes, only feedback !

3- Only accept what’s 10/10 for you ! That is a sign that you are treating yourself life the most important person on your life.

If you’re interested in seeing him in action, he’s doing a Facebook live tonight at 7:30 pm and if you’re looking for some light in these dark times, that’s the place to be.

To know more about Marc Dumaine and his journey as a personal developement coach follow him here

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